If you planned to hike Mt. Everest, would you hire a sherpa who had never summited the mountain? I hope not. There’s simply no substitute for experience when it comes to placing your life in another person’s hands, especially in a life-changing process like divorce.

When you need a guide, it’s imperative to hire someone who has been there. Someone who has traversed a similar path, slipped on the greasy slopes, lost her balance, slid down the mountainside face first, and plunged into the icy waters below. That someone also needs to have picked herself up and retrieved all of her sh*t. Someone who regained her balance and her equanimity, and despite the many and varied challenges, pushed forward and summited.  

This essence has name. It’s called grit. And it’s the most important quality of a wayshower. Not some untested dandy with clean clothes and no falls, who points you in the direction you should go. By yourself. “I’ve heard it’s pretty there.” Really? This is not leadership. This is not a guide. This is a salesperson.

I’m a divorce guide. A seasoned wayshower who has assisted thousands to the mountaintop and not by the gondola.

I’m here to be the “how” for you. I’ve got the experience. You need my grit until you develop enough of your own to assist you through this process. And maybe even after that—if the divorce journey is an especially difficult one.

If you want the grit, and the vista or view from the mountain top, let's do this together. Click the link below to have me consider being your guide, ally, and divorce sherpa.

If you’d like to see my CV, and cross-reference my stated skillset, it’s available here.